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The Duke of Cambridge has spoken about how the “life-changing” experience of becoming a father brought back emotions he felt following the death of his mother, Princess Diana.
On Thursday 28 May, the documentary Football, Prince William And Our Mental Health will air on BBC One.
In the documentary, which was created over the course of a year, Prince William was filmed meeting football players, managers and fans in an effort to spark conversations about mental health in the sport.
At one point during filming, the 37-year-old spoke with former professional player Marvin Sordell, and discussed the “overwhelming” nature of parenthood.
Sordell told the duke that becoming a father for the first time a few years ago was “the hardest time in my life”, saying he found it hard to be a role model to his child having grown up without a father. “I really struggled with my emotions at that time,” the 29-year-old said.
When asked by Sordell who he went to for support when he became a father, Prince William said: “Having children is the biggest life-changing moment, it really is.”
“And I agree with you, I think when you’ve been through something traumatic in life – and that is like you say your dad not being around, my mother dying when I was younger – your emotions come back in leaps and bounds because it’s a very different phase of life,” the duke stated.
“And there’s no one there to, kind of, help you, and I definitely found it very, at times, overwhelming.”
Prince William said that he and Duchess of Cambridge “support each other”, and that they “go through those moments together” and “kind of evolve and learn together”.
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Diana arriving on 4 October, 1990 for a charity gala at the Departmental Auditorium in Washington
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Diana and Prince Charles at their wedding St Paul Cathedral 29 July 1981
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Prince Charles and Diana at the memorial to the British Gloster Regiment outside Seoul. The Royal couple were on a four-day official visit to Korea
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Diana listens to a senior nun of the Missionaries of Charity at the house of Mother Teresa in Calcutta on 15 February, 1992
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Diana, Princes William and Harry applaud during the Wales vs France Five Nations Cup match at Cardiff Arms Park on 1 February, 1992
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Diana wearing a heavy duty protection vest and face shield, accompanied by a mine-clearing expert of the Halo Trust 15 January 1997 during her visit to the mine fields near Huambo, Angola
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Diana waves to the crowd as she arrives at the Cité de la Villette in Paris on 14 November, 1992 during a three-day visit in France
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Diana visiting Khufu, the great Pyramid in Giza on 12 May 1992
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Diana departs her London health club, 20 November 1995
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Diana listens to a young boy with learning difficulties on 13 November, 1992 during her visit to a school in Paris
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Ronald and Nancy Reagan welcome Diana and Prince Charles to the White House
Don Rypka/AFP
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Diana and Prince Charles watch Indonesian tribal dancers in Yogyakarta, Indonesia on 5 November 1989
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Diana talks to amputees at the the Neves Bendinha Orthopedic Workshop on the outskirts of Luanda on 14 January, 1997
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Diana with the royal family outside the London Clarence House residence on 4 August 1989
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Diana and Prince Charles arrive at the church for the funeral of Earl Spencer, Diana's father, who died on 29 March, 1992
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Diana chats with 15-year old landmine victim, Bosnian muslim girl Mirzeta Gabelic, in front of Mirzeta's home in Sarajevo
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Diana attending the France-Wales Five-Nations' tournament match on 21 January, 1995 in the grandstand at the Parc des Princes
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Diana flanked by tennis players – America's Michael Chang and Sweden's Jonas Bjorkman – during the awards ceremony at the Hong Kong Open on 23 April, 1995
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Diana, Prince Harry, and Prince William gather for the commemorations of VJ Day, 19 August 1995, in London
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Diana and Jemima Khan, wife of Pakistani cricketer Imran Khan, attend a variety show 22 February 1996 in Lahore
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Diana arriving on 4 October, 1990 for a charity gala at the Departmental Auditorium in Washington
Kevin Larkin/AFP
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Diana and Prince Charles at their wedding St Paul Cathedral 29 July 1981
AFP/Getty Images
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Prince Charles and Diana at the memorial to the British Gloster Regiment outside Seoul. The Royal couple were on a four-day official visit to Korea
AFP/Getty Images
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Diana listens to a senior nun of the Missionaries of Charity at the house of Mother Teresa in Calcutta on 15 February, 1992
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Diana, Princes William and Harry applaud during the Wales vs France Five Nations Cup match at Cardiff Arms Park on 1 February, 1992
Jean-Pierre Muller/AFP
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Diana wearing a heavy duty protection vest and face shield, accompanied by a mine-clearing expert of the Halo Trust 15 January 1997 during her visit to the mine fields near Huambo, Angola
AFP/Getty Images
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Diana waves to the crowd as she arrives at the Cité de la Villette in Paris on 14 November, 1992 during a three-day visit in France
Pierre Verdy/AFP
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Diana visiting Khufu, the great Pyramid in Giza on 12 May 1992
Manoocher Deghati/AFP
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Diana departs her London health club, 20 November 1995
AFP/Getty Images
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Diana listens to a young boy with learning difficulties on 13 November, 1992 during her visit to a school in Paris
Joel Robine/AFP
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Ronald and Nancy Reagan welcome Diana and Prince Charles to the White House
Don Rypka/AFP
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Diana and Prince Charles watch Indonesian tribal dancers in Yogyakarta, Indonesia on 5 November 1989
Kazuhiro Nogi/AFP
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Diana talks to amputees at the the Neves Bendinha Orthopedic Workshop on the outskirts of Luanda on 14 January, 1997
Joao Silva/AP
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Diana with the royal family outside the London Clarence House residence on 4 August 1989
Johnny Eggitt/AFP
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Diana and Prince Charles arrive at the church for the funeral of Earl Spencer, Diana's father, who died on 29 March, 1992
Martyn Hayhow/AFP
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Diana chats with 15-year old landmine victim, Bosnian muslim girl Mirzeta Gabelic, in front of Mirzeta's home in Sarajevo
Hidajet Delic/AP
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Diana attending the France-Wales Five-Nations' tournament match on 21 January, 1995 in the grandstand at the Parc des Princes
Jean-Pierre Muller/AFP
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Diana flanked by tennis players – America's Michael Chang and Sweden's Jonas Bjorkman – during the awards ceremony at the Hong Kong Open on 23 April, 1995
Emmanuel Dunand/AFP
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Diana, Prince Harry, and Prince William gather for the commemorations of VJ Day, 19 August 1995, in London
AFP/Getty Images
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Diana and Jemima Khan, wife of Pakistani cricketer Imran Khan, attend a variety show 22 February 1996 in Lahore
Saeed Khan/AFP
“But I do agree with you,” he told Sordell. “I think emotionally things come out of the blue that you don’t ever expect or maybe you think you’ve dealt with and so I can completely relate to what you’re saying about children coming along, it’s one of the most amazing moments of life but it’s also one of the scariest.”
The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have three children: six-year-old Prince George, five-year-old Princess Charlotte and two-year-old Prince Louis.
Prince William’s mother, Princess Diana, died in 1997 in a car crash.
William was 15 at the time while his brother Harry was 12.
Last year, Prince Harry described the memories surrounding his mother’s death as “a wound that festers”.
“I think being part of this family, in this role, in this job, every single time I see a camera, every single time I hear a click, every single time I see a flash, it takes me straight back, so in that respect it’s the worst reminder of her life, as opposed to the best,” he said.


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